Saturday, May 06, 2006
I decided to take a peek at the dating section today and i just have plenty on my mind.Hmmh..Let's see..
The reason why we go all around with all the insecurities,jealousy,hatred and God knows what else,deeply embedded in us,is because of factors that that have taken years for you to acquire,and of course coupled with with the mentality with which you went through it.
This is what makes up the character called You!yes it's you am talking about.Ha!ha!.Ever met people who just do weird stuff and their only excuse is:"That's who i am"?Well, let's relate that to marriage.
Believe what you want,but your past has cast such a huge shadow upon your present,life that everything you do is as a result of that.Think so?!Ok,just look at the things you hold precious right now,inckuding your spouse or date.What criteria did you use to arrive at that?
My hand is up!I can answer that..Do you remember that nasty heartbreak you had that made you change so drastically,no-one could notice you anymore?Well,how about the single parent that was missing in your life?Did you not start looking at life in a different perspective from your peers?...
Are we getting somewhere?I dare say,the dark side of your life(And very few people lack one)runs your present life in such a passive manner you may not notice it at all.
Let me now get it more simpler before you start thinking that am another Einstein writing crazy stuff(well my mind's telling me am crazy to just tell all this..).The next time your spouse does the crazy things,please will you tactfully get them to tell you what part in their life hurt them that much.
Ouch!I have to go for now,i intend to spill more tomorrowWell,who says yes to that?Come on hit me!
The reason why we go all around with all the insecurities,jealousy,hatred and God knows what else,deeply embedded in us,is because of factors that that have taken years for you to acquire,and of course coupled with with the mentality with which you went through it.
This is what makes up the character called You!yes it's you am talking about.Ha!ha!.Ever met people who just do weird stuff and their only excuse is:"That's who i am"?Well, let's relate that to marriage.
Believe what you want,but your past has cast such a huge shadow upon your present,life that everything you do is as a result of that.Think so?!Ok,just look at the things you hold precious right now,inckuding your spouse or date.What criteria did you use to arrive at that?
My hand is up!I can answer that..Do you remember that nasty heartbreak you had that made you change so drastically,no-one could notice you anymore?Well,how about the single parent that was missing in your life?Did you not start looking at life in a different perspective from your peers?...
Are we getting somewhere?I dare say,the dark side of your life(And very few people lack one)runs your present life in such a passive manner you may not notice it at all.
Let me now get it more simpler before you start thinking that am another Einstein writing crazy stuff(well my mind's telling me am crazy to just tell all this..).The next time your spouse does the crazy things,please will you tactfully get them to tell you what part in their life hurt them that much.
Ouch!I have to go for now,i intend to spill more tomorrowWell,who says yes to that?Come on hit me!
# posted by Jeff Vinoma @ 6:36 AM 
